The Future Woman is here – You are IT!
What every woman needs to know!
There are whispers growing louder that echo through the chambers of our hearts and sparks that dance from our DNA. We are changing the world, one thought, one word, one deed at a time. We are strong, we are bold, we are powerful and we are ready to reach through the swirling epicenter of our being and pull from its fiery core the elixir of change, the tonic of our soul and the essence of our being.
We are ready to pour these delicious gifts from that place of reflective stillness into everything we choose to touch with our growing radiance.
This transformation does not involve covering everything with ‘love and light’ – although this can be part of the process, and paradoxically the outcome releases light though a seemingly narrow gateway of love that grows infinitely once entered.
We are in a transformation of integration, of understanding the necessary balance between ‘darkness’ and ‘light’, and deep investigation as to what those things even mean. There is nothing within us to fear but fear itself. We do not resign ourselves to our fears, but we do accept them and it is through the embracing of our shadow, the percolation process through our senses that the delicious complexities of our psyche are unwound and released.
There is a reason his Holiness the Dalai Lama was quoted as saying that it was the Western woman who would change the world. Indeed we are in a fortunate position to be alive, here on this planet, in the form of a woman. This is true whether we are aware of it or not. Bringing awareness to it, is an activation that will create a field of empowerment around you and change you, those around you, your reality and the projection of the planet!
Dramatic? Perhaps.. Truth?? Absolutely!!
Every woman needs to know their own truth.
Every woman needs to know that there is an innate, intelligent, limitless, bold and powerful life force that exists within her very cellular structure, and all she has to do is listen to it.
I like to call her my inner goddess, and for me, her biggest activation so far has come about through the initiation of pregnancy and giving birth. I have also found that her growth, power and wisdom grows exponentially.
Her food is love.
The radical kind of love where you allow your boundaries to dissolve and your inner raging wars to declare peace by taking steps into the uncomfortable places where you could be ‘wrong’, ‘foolish’ and vulnerable. The kind of love where being right is secondary, nay silenced to the cultivation of reaching understanding.
I surrender to this goddess the dramas and fears of my ‘survival mind’ and she transforms them into patience and acceptance. The more I love her, the more she reveals herself. The more I listen to her guidance, the brighter and more love filled my life becomes. And that is not to say that life is without challenge for challenge is the grit, the prima material for our growth, without it we would not be here.
The Goddess allows energy to circulate and move in spheres beyond your sight only to return with an upgrade beyond what you could have maybe imagined. When she is given a place in your life, fears can be faced breath by breath.
The more I allow her into my thoughts words and deeds, the more clarity and insight I am shown in every moment.
The more I remember her when I am in an emotional state, the more manageable the lows and the more wonderfilled the highs. Every woman needs to know that her wisdom is available to every woman.
It is this wisdom that guided me through my pregnant months, through my sciatic pain she whispered guidance and lead me to my own healing. She brought ways and means across my path when I needed it, she made me feel safe and empowered when I was confronted with collective fears about child birth and parenting choices.
She led me into stillness and communion with nature and fed herself in these moments of reverence and bliss.
During birth she was there, calm, strong, present, reminding me of my breath, keeping me in the moment, every moment. I allowed her to be my guardian, and with her supportive light, there was no trace of fear. I completely trusted my body under her suggestion. I completely surrendered to the knowing that ‘I could do this’ and that indeed woman were made to do this. It was part of my purpose.
As a mother she gives me a firm and steady hand to hold as I reflect my emotional reactions through my closest relationships. In motherhood she presents me with insights into the energetic fractal patterning of my ancestry, and weaves this ancestral twine in astral and dreamscape journeys, smashing through the limited barriers created in a complex web of living and doing.
She shows me how blame and complaint are the EASIEST and surest ways to give my power away and she loves me as I take responsibility for everything that shows up in my reality.
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She holds the bond that grows between me and my son every moment we spend together. (My son helps me with these things too)… She guided me through vivid dreams of death and dying, in the first few weeks of motherhood – an initiation and a symbol of that which I had left behind. She calmed my nerves through the sleep deprivation and exhaustion and returned me back to love when I wandered too far from love’s sweet song. I could return again and again to her frequency field of calm, centered beingness. Internally, when the emotional waves raged a turbulent, stormy tempest, she provided an island of sanctuary to rest my tattered perceived self before I returned on my way, renewed, refreshed and with a new game changing perspective. Externally she gave me the strength to encounter and listen to others opinions and projected fears without turning them into mine and without creating another ‘battle’.
She gives me the words when I need them, and she gives me the wisdom to know when to remain silent.
This goddess is real, and she is available to EVERY woman!!
She is a part of me and always has been. Without her guidance my life, my family and my son’s future would be eternally different. Her insight is genius, creative and perfect for every scenario I encounter. She is holistic, loving and all that you would imagine a goddess to be.
She is me. I am her. She is you.
This goddess can never die, she is limitless and made from the fabric of the universe.
Goddess energy and its bountiful wisdom is a frequency that already exists within you, it may guide you in an infinite amount of ways, and may have form, or be formless, your experience with it will be completely unique.
There one frequency that will deafen you to her, that can be the loudest voice you hear and tune into. The insidious, unscrupulous and sometimes slippery and subtle frequency of fear and survival mentality. If you cannot bring a equanimous awareness to this frequency, it can run your life and carry you away with every tremor created within your world. Fear is projected in a multitude of forms, all serving to dis-empower YOU!
A woman in fear during pregnancy, birthing and mothering, will have an experience where she feels powerless and overwhelmed. She will be vulnerable and potentially she will be unable to relieve her anxiety and stress. She will make reactive decisions that bring complexity and more powerlessness into her field.
There is so much power and responsibility resting with a mother.. and it doesn’t matter what kind of birth you end up having, what parenting style you follow or invent, what matters is the frequency a mother chooses. Is it fear/ survival/ disempowerment or do you get in touch with your goddess??
3 Simple ways to cultivate your relationship:
- Remember its a frequency you are looking to tune into, one that already exists within you… A feminine energy. Romance her, make decisions and intend for the divine feminine to support you to in them. Instead of waiting at the expectation station for her to provide you with some divine wisdom and insight, play a game with the following in mind, Perspective is Frequency. If you find yourself overwhelmed, take a breath and put on your ‘goddess goggles’… same situation, through the eyes of a goddess.. What does she see? How does she respond? In this way you will see that the world is still the world, but it is a matter of your perspective that will determine your frequency, and therefore your following actions and also allow space for your thought patterns to upgrade.
- Begin and end your day in communion with her. There are many ways to do this, but centering yourself through awareness of your breath should do the trick. Or find the space where you feel centered and calm, and if you cant find it…take a playful break and then continue looking.
- Spend time in nature, in reverence of nature, appreciating its perfection, the smells, the play of light and shadow, the textures, the sounds, whatever makes you marvel. Ground yourself and allow her rhythm to gently come beside yours and guide you back to into your own rhythm. From this place of your own rhythm, this stillness, the noise of fear will be silenced and your goddess can speak.
Goddess Energy begins internally but moves outward into your life… She is not about isolating yourself and constant inward reflection, although sometimes she can be. Our role as women is to bring this energy into our outer worlds!!
Shadow accumulates through collective fear, and a woman in her power re-routes and transforms this fear before it is returned to the collective. Never underestimate the role you play in tipping the balance. Never turn from your fears, allow your goddess to guide you through them.
The time is now sweet mama!